When it comes to relationships, your relationship frequency will be the most influential factor on whether your relationship thrives or is doomed to fail.
What Do You Mean By Relationship Frequency?
Everyone has a certain frequency (the vibratory oscillation rate of the atomic and sub-atomic particles in your field) which ranges between 50-150 Ghz. Frequency is extremely important because of the Law of Resonance which states that depending on the frequency you have you will resonate with people, places, times, things and events that have similar frequency if not identical frequency.
Two people do not get together and stay together unless they have the same or very similar frequency. Anything that is encoded in your field like past painful experiences, karmic imprints, the emotional pain body, beliefs, attitudes, etc. will have an effect on your frequency and attract you to people who have the same or very similar low frequency imprints encoded in their field.
Does This Sound Like You?
There is an awakening happening within you and suddenly you begin to perceive the nature of reality and yourself differently. The universe seems to be interconnected and imbued with consciousness; you witness how your thoughts have always been influencing your experience of reality and how they attract you to certain people, places, times, things and events.
There is a burning desire within to read books and embody a deep wisdom on how to heal yourself, balance your energy field and manifest the reality you’ve always wanted. The interconnectedness of everything becomes an opportunity to experience things like energy healing, divine guidance and a life filled with purpose.
Suddenly you begin to acquire knowledge, relevant information and direction from your Higher Self. Every day life is filled with synchronicities and you are constantly communicating with the Uni-verse, clearly reading the signs and messages that appear all around you in nature, books, conversations and events.
You realize you are the master of your own destiny and you can create the reality you desire. You close your eyes, envision your brilliant future and energize this vision with joy…soon enough your vision becomes a manifested reality.
This profound rebirth inspires a core desire to transform all areas of your life with this new found knowledge and state of being.
No Relationship Frequency Resonance
But you are in a relationship and your partner doesn’t resonate with this new way of thinking, feeling and being that brings you so much joy. At first you try to rescue, change and heal your partner only to realize that you cannot change him/her, that change must come from within him/her.
Your partner doesn’t want to change, at least not in the way you would like him/her to do. You feel different, you see patterns in the relationship that you want to transcend because you no longer can engage or resonate with:
- The drama
- The guilt strategies
- The discordant ways of manipulating
- The blaming
- The judging
- The comfort zones or the places and events you used to enjoy (bars, watching t.v., mindless consumerism, etc.)
There is no denying you love your partner, but you feel you are growing apart and if you continue through this path you will most likely go your separate ways. A part of you doesn’t want the relationship to end, because you love your partner.
What Are Your Options?
Maybe you choose to stop your growth, but soon realize you feel stuck and unhappy. You know that this new way of being makes your soul come alive, this is what you have longed for your entire life.
Your intuition tells you that the time has come to bring closure to this relationship but the toxic energy cords that bind you are too strong. It is evident that these toxic cords are siphoning your life force energy and lowering your frequency; you know you can clear them but at the same time you fear the unknown.
Finally you find the courage to cut the toxic cords of attachment, bring closure in the highest of ways and move on to walk the higher path that has been revealed to you, a path filled with purpose, joy and fulfillment.
Harmonic Relationship Frequency Resonance
The Universal Law of Resonance has become crystal clear and you have realized that it was impossible to stay in your previous relationship because both of you longer resonated with each other, your vibrational frequency was no longer the same.
If you had stayed in the relationship you could have suffered a bigger loss; losing your integrity, your soul’s mission and the ultimate expression of self love. Instead of seeing this relationship closure as a loss you see it as an opportunity to attract a higher frequency grid of people, places, times, things and events that resonate with your new state of being.
You feel a space opening within you, a space that is ready to welcome more of Who You Really Are. A feeling of readiness, surrender and trust begins to take over you, making you eager to explore the unknown and open to the endless possibilities of meeting your soul family, manifesting your twin flame, creating unlimited abundance and fulfilling your soul’s purpose.
Go From a 3D Relationship To a 5D Relationship
Now that you understand the dynamics of relationship frequency, learn how to transition from a 3D relationship into a 5D relationship by reading the How To Manifest a 5D Relationship blog post.