Have you ever dated someone and thought they were the ONE but in the end it didn’t work out?
You would be surprised to know how many people confuse karmic relationships with finding the ONE, their twin-flame or soulmate. This happened to me more than once and it was heartbreaking to say the least.
It all starts with this strong and passionate attraction between two people.
They fall madly in love and everything seems to be out of the ordinary. But after a while things start to go south, an avalanche of pain and drama engulfs the relationship and what once seemed like a fairytale has turned into a nightmare.
Karmic Relationships
Everyone has a certain frequency (the vibratory oscillation rate of the atomic and sub-atomic particles in your field) which ranges between 50-150 Ghz. Frequency is extremely important because of the Law of Resonance which states that depending on the frequency you have you will resonate with people, places, times, things and events that have similar frequency if not identical frequency.
Two people do not get together and stay together unless they have the same or a very similar frequency.
Karmic relationships are relationships in which the frequency of karmic imprints becomes the determining factor that attracts two people and later create the dysfunctional relationship dynamics that sabotage the relationship.
There are numerous factors that determine your relationship frequency, but one of the most influential factors are karmic imprints and the emotional pain body. If you look closely you’ll realize that people who are in a relationship usually are playing opposite sides of the karmic imprint spectrum.
Polarity Based Attraction
Let’s say that you have karmic imprints of not being worthy of love. Based on the frequency of this karmic imprint you will most likely attract a person who subconsciously believes they are incapable of giving love or opening the heart chakra.
Here are other karmic imprints that create a polarity based attraction:
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Betrayal and Trust Issues
Another example would be someone who has karmic imprints of not being able to trust men only to attract a man who is not trustworthy. Or someone who has karmic imprints of betrayal will attract a partner that will most likely end up betraying them.
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Victimization Issues
If you have karmic imprints of victimization, most likely from past abusive relationships, then you will most likely attract a partner that will play the role of a tyrant.
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Abandonment
If you have soul fragments or karmic imprints that were created during a past traumatic event of abandonment then you will most likely have a great fear of being abandoned. You will then project this fear onto your relationship and eventually create a self fulfilling prophecy where the other person will abandon you.
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Emotionally Unavailable or Commitment Issues
This is a classic pattern many women get caught up in. There are a series of energetic blockages that can keep you in a karmic loop where you attract or fall in love with men who are emotionally unavailable or simply are not willing to commit to the relationship.
You get the picture, all karmic imprints are polarized and when you get into a karmic relationship you will play at least one of these polar opposite relationship roles. Some people will switch roles and play both sides of the karmic spectrum.
Chemical Love Vs. Higher Giving Love
These polarity based karmic imprints are responsible for the strong magnetic/electric attraction that manifest in the beginning of the relationship. And because the attraction wasn’t based on higher love in the first place the relationship will be driven by a CHEMICAL BASED LOVE.
This chemical love is what creates an incredible high during the early stages of the relationship. Chemical love is intoxicating and can be often confused with the soul connection that twin flames and soulmates share, but unfortunately is far from it.
And because chemical love is polarity based, sooner or later both parties will experience the polar opposite emotions which are bitterness and hatred. Think about it, how many relationships you know about that started out on cloud nine only to end in bitterness, resentment and hatred?
This is what is called the Love and Hate Relationship Karmic Loop. This is an extremely dangerous pattern where two people will constantly break up and get back together.
Unbeknownst to them is the fact that emotions like hatred, pity and redemption are extremely ADDICTIVE. And couples who get entangled in this karmic loop will constantly create fights, arguments and discord so that they can break up and later get back together in order to kiss and make up.
Consequences of Being In a Karmic Relationship
Being in a karmic relationship can have life long consequences. If you happen to have a child during a karmic relationship you will have created a bond that will connect you to that other person for the rest of your life. Of course children are always a blessing, but the karma you share with the father or mother can ruin a big part of the parenting experience.
Yet even if you don’t have a child, every time you fall into the karmic relationship trap you will end up creating more relationship karma and thus continue to lower your relationship frequency even further. This will make it harder for you to actually attract a relationship that is based on higher giving love and in line with your Soul’s Purpose.
The end result is getting stuck in an never ending karmic loop of pain, drama and heartbreak. Most people are unaware that they have been stuck in such a karmic loop for multiple lifetimes!
Walking the Karma Vs. Transmuting The Karma
What can you do to get out of a karmic relationship loop? Basically you have two options:
- Walk the karma
- Transmute the karma
Walking your relationship karma is the hardest way to transcend your relationship karmic loops. The reason for this is that you can’t control the other person, and even though you might be trying your best to heal and grow through the relationship, the other person might get caught up in their own shadow self karmic imprints.
It’s quite challenging to remain in a state of peace and equanimity when the other person is possessed by their unresolved emotions and past traumatic experiences. It takes a very conscious person to remain in a state of consciousness and equanimity in the midst of hurtful projections and drama.
However, even though it is a rare thing, it is possible to bring a peaceful resolution to a karmic relationship by getting on the same page with the other person.
Another big problem with walking ALL your relationship karma is that you are most likely carrying a karmic baggage that was created through the span of hundreds if not thousands of relationships throughout multiple incarnations.
On the other hand you can transmute the relationship karmic imprints you have created during all your relationships (including past lives relationships) by directly connecting to your Higher Self and transmuting the energetic blockages related to the SOURCE of your relationship karma.
Transmuting your karma via your Higher Self offers an immense advantage. The advantage being that you don’t have to walk the karma, which can take a very long time and be emotionally draining at times.
Find The ONE, Be The ONE
On December 20 at 3pm Eastern Time my wife and I are going to be hosting the Find The ONE, Be The ONE live webinar.
In this 3 hour training we are going to take participants through a two part journey. During the 1st part of the training my beloved will walk you through the 3 key pillars to manifesting the ONE (next blog post I will go into the minute details about this) and during the 2nd part of the training we are going to help you clear all the energetic blockages that are preventing you from finding/attracting the one. Here is a list of some of the things we will be clearing:
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Love and Hate Karmic Loop
Clear soul fragments and karmic imprints related to the source of the Love and Hate Relationship Karmic Loop. Transcend chemical based love and embody a state of higher giving love.
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Emotional Addictions
Clear karmic imprints related to hatred, resentment, pity and redemption. Finally manifest a relationship where the soul connection is so strong that breaking up is never an option.
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Co-dependency
This blockage is the source of relationship drama and it is the reason why many people get caught up in karmic relationships. Stop going into relationship wanting and expecting the other person to make you happy. Become the source of your own happiness and thrive in self-love.
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The Emotional Pain Body
The emotional pain body represents one of the lowest frequency blockages that attract people into a relationship. The lighter the frequency of your pain body is the higher the frequency of your relationship will be. Let's clear layers and layers of past relationship pain. Some of these layers will include unresolved emotions related to: betrayal, heartbreak, abandonment, rejection, abuse and more.
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Guilt and unworthiness
Guilt is the greatest blockage to self love and joy. Without self love you will get caught up in a relationship ruled by energy vampirism, where each person is trying to extract the love they believe they don't have. If you feel unworthy then you will tend to attract relationships that will reflect this awful feeling back to you.
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Blockages To Higher Love
Open your heart chakra and transcend relationship based on the Ego and chemical love. Instead awaken to the infinite source of higher giving love that lies within you.
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Ties to Past Relationships
Cut all cords of attachments and karmic ties to previous relationships. Cords of attachments are what keep you stuck in past relationship patterns. Free yourself from past unresolved issues and lift the veils that have been distorting your relationship perception.
The intent of this webinar is to help you find the ONE in 2019. By changing and raising your relationship frequency you will inevitably transcend karmic relationships and finally RESONATE with the person that will co-create with you the relationship of your dreams.
The investment for this training and access to the recording is 297. Click here to register for the webinar: Find The ONE, Be The ONE Live Training
Jenn and I have been together for almost a decade. From the moment we met each other we knew this relationship was different from all the other karmic relationships we previously had. During this webinar we are going to share with you how to recognize this type of relationship (what I call an Ascended Relationship) and how to constantly keep the relationship THRIVING with soul connection, higher love, passion and growth!
Looking forward to helping you manifest the ONE!
Gustavo and Jenn
P.S.: Jenn and I have been on a conscious and higher loving relationship since early 2010. And something that is very different from polarity based karmic relationship is that the love, passion and connection from this relationship keeps getting stronger.
On the other hand when you hear about chemical love relationships they always talk about how when they first met they were madly in love and couldn’t help but be all over each other. For us it started like that but to be honest it keeps getting better, we don’t reminisce on the past instead we are very present and are constantly finding new dimensions of love within ourselves and each other.
If you are fed up with manifesting karmic relationships and you are ready to manifest the ONE then join us in our upcoming live webinar!